Sarah Neely

Jealousy in the Family

Sarah Neely
Jealousy in the Family

Blood isn't always thicker than water. Well that can be both true and false. Growing up, family is something we cherished.  As our parents will say the value of family means more than friendships but at the same time, certain friendships can turn into family.  Despite the fact that family will often distance themselves, they’re usually our go to people when we are having problems, struggling, venting, or sharing accomplishments. They are usually there for us (then there are some who are not as fortunate to have that). You have great moments and memories with family. We all have our ups and downs but still sometimes you are totally blindsided by family. Let’s talk about an incident from this past weekend. Yes!  I got a story for y’all I bet y’all like damn she always got something going on. To answer your question: yes I do lol. 

Ok, so my uncle passed away the weekend of Christmas. This is my mom’s side of the family. Them motherfuckers shady as hell so I should have expected this but I was still blindsided. As it goes, my first cousin tagged my family (myself included) in a post where she shared a slideshow in remembrance of my uncle. In this slide show it was missing pictures of my mother and her sisters, so two of my sisters addressed the issue. Which i thought was true, so I decided to be petty. Keep in mind this post is a day old so I posted two gifs which stated “what a question” and “I’ll be waiting.”  After a few hours passed, my second cousin posts two gifs one with a girl in the corner and the other with a girl saying “waiting.”  So my ass sent another gif “who sent you?”  She then deletes her gifs so I’m like cool but the next morning the second cousin comments again which I’m confused why (but I get it, you know how you talk about something with someone so they need some type of validation and things to say because they didn’t know how to handle the situation) yes that’s what she did, she contacted her sisters but anyway she writes on the post to my sister “what’s with all the emojis?”  Me being my petty self and just being funny I posted “they are not emojis they are gifs before you try to come for her.”  Then I sent another gif “get the fuck up out here.”  So she then says to me “bitch shut the fuck up with your dirty face!”  I’m looking at the comment for about one minute, kid you not. Like “bitch? Dirty face?” Like I’m like did she really just say this shit? So I went the fuck off “oh I see this is personal bitch your fat ass need to be worried about having kids and your man not cheating on your ass before you come for me. I posted a collage with her image and myself and told her I had time today.”  Then she says I will but it won’t be a married man. See the thing about me I’m an open book so I told her “no my child isn’t by a married man but if you read my blog you will find anything about me from me but you barely made it through high school so you wouldn’t interpret that.”  Y’all I promise you if you want to know about me it’s in my blogs not to mention I’m not ashamed of anything I have done so if you ever come for me, make sure it’s something I actually care about.  So yes I will talk about how I got my beautiful little girl in a post. Trust me I got y’all, then the bitch deleted her comments so it made it seem like I was arguing with myself and she is innocent but I’m petty and my a screen shot game is on point because it’s scary people out here that will try to scandalize your name and play victim but I had time for her that day. She never showed up to the funeral or the repasts (I was waiting for her because you didn’t want to come to me as a woman). 

Long story short you never know who in your family dislikes you and or is jealous of you. Some people wait for that exact moment to say how they truly feel towards you but they never say it to your face but don’t worry they’re too scary to face you.  Not to mention it makes me look even more jealous in person because they see the mirror image of themselves. Make sure you never think it’s about you; it’s their jealous, hating ass that dislikes you for no apparent reason (probably because they are not happy but they think you are).  These types of people are in my family and probably yours. They sit around and discuss you with other family members and just discuss you when you don’t even think about them at all. So fuck them and keep your distance because they will continue to be that type of person because if someone whom you don’t talk to discussing you really doesn’t have a life. 

I know I said I wasn’t going to step out of character in my last post but I had to let that hoe know to not come for me. In 2018 I’m still working on being a better me and trying my best to keep my composure and not snap on people. Just pray for me y’all. The devil is busy and I must be doing something right because 2017 I had more people come for me than anything but 2018 they are dust to me. That’s the Naked Truth. 

Photographed by Djaamal Photography

 Photographed by  Djaamal Photography

Photographed by Djaamal Photography

 Photographed by  Djaamal Photography

Photographed by Djaamal Photography

Photographed by Djaamal Photography

 Photographed by  Djaamal Photography

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